Maid of Honor Checklist, Bestie of the Bride, Planning a Bachelorette + More…

This summer my best friend in the entire world married the love of her life!! A moment I had dreamed of since we met and became best friends in 2011… and I was blessed to stand beside her as her maid of honor. This summer as I shared bits and pieces of her bachelorette and wedding on my Instastories, my DM’s filled up with questions about how I did or planned things leading up to my bestie’s big day. So now that the dust has settled, I thought I would share everything on here, so I can re-share this and refer back to it!

My Maid of Honor Master Checklist: 

  • Make bachelorette/getting ready playlist
  • Engagement/bridal shower gift
  • Emergency kit for wedding day
  • Order prints
  • Wedding gift
  • Wedding speech
  • Bachelorette party
  • My looks

Engagement/Bridal Shower Gift:

Planning the Bachelorette:

  1. A theme and a Pinterest board… we picked Tessa’s Last Ride and her sister’s and I created a board to collect ideas
  2. Shop! The September before I went to Party City and dug through all of the clearence bins of bridal and bachelorette decor. Then topped it off with a Dollarama shop. After that I only had to order a handful of things that I really wanted to tie it all together!
  3. Suck it, bite it, blow it!! A Pinterest idea came to life… I used bowls from the Dollarama, suckers, bubble gum and hard candy. I use these Amazon labels and wet erase pens that I already use in my pantry and closets!

4. Our bridal party shirts were also from https://www.brayerlanecreations.ca/ 

5. I got all of the bridesmaids to send in their fav photos of them with the bride and printed them at Costco and used them as part of the decor!

6. Pink Solo Cups
7. Same Penis Forever sign
8. Last Hoe Down sign
9. Penis Confetti 
10. Go Hoe or Go Home card game

11. Arbonne Energy Fizz Sticks – Hangover essentials!

12. Make Jell-o shots, get the invite list from the bride, keep everyone updated, plan some games, post a snack sign up, and spoil your bestie all weekend!!

Wedding Day Emergency Kit (good for a Bachelorette trip too!!)

  • Shout wipes – these things are AMAZING!! 100% a wedding day necessity 
  • Baby wipes
  • Advil, Tylenol and gravol
  • Mini scissors
  • Tweezers
  • Kleenex
  • Double sided tape
  • Bandaids
  • Tampons
  • Super glue
  • Mini deodorant
  • Gum
  • Floss

Bridal Party Wedding Gift

We decided on these custom flutes from https://therowdyrose.com/ !! They turned out so perfect!

Looking back, this is one job I wish I would have delegated off to another bridesmaid. I am a control freak on my best day and as my bestie’s MOH I wanted everything to be perfect! The group of bridesmaids we had were amazing, I shout have asked for more help at times.

Get the look

You wanna feel fire for your bestie’s wedding! You wanna make sure your looks and your appointments are planned out very early in advance! Wedding month/week are hectic and you don’t want to be last minute scrambling!

  • Order your dress, get it altered, get it steamed. Try it on with your shoes, bra etc. before putting it safely into a dress bag!
    Link to my dress – I highly recommend ordering from this site if you are ordering bridesmaids dresses online!
  • Pick out your shoes, jewlry, bra/boob tape, underwear
  • Book your pre-wedding hair appointment
  • Find your hair inspo pic
  • Book your pre-wedding manicure and pedicure appointments
  • Trial your makeup and hair
  • Tan… I am a serial self-tanner! So I knew I wanted to tan two days before the wedding. Book a spray tan appointment or trial self-tanner on yourself!
    Link to my fav self-tanner

 

Bridesmaid Packing List – keep in mind I was gone for almost a week!

  • Rain coat
  • Blanket
  • Tumbler/water bottle
  • Fizz sticks
  • Booze
  • Sunscreen
  • Laundry bags– my OCD literally cannot deal with my dirty clothes touching my clean ones. These are essential for me. I buy them at the Dollarama but I attached an Amazon link!
  • Towels
  • Shampoo/conditioner
  • Disposable razors
  • Emergen-C Vitamin C Packets – wedding or no wedding… I swear by these if you are sick or starting to get sick!
  • Makeup Wipes
  • Self-Tanner
  • Tanning Mitts
  • Tampons
  • Blow Dryer
  • Hair Oil
  • Leggings- Amazon lulu dupe leggings… I have not bought Lulu’s since discovering these!
  • Shorts
  • iPhone/iPad chargers
  • Lint roller
  • Jewlry 
  • Jeans
  • Jammies
  • Bras, underwear and socks
  • Bridesmaids dress
  • Pasties

Shoutout to this bridal party!! They really were the effing best! Standing by your best friends side while she marries the love of her life is one of the most special moments of your life. Soak in every moment of it. Nobody tells you how much you will love and appriciate your best friends husband- the one who shows up and loves her right. So shout out to Colton, thank you for loving my girl even more than I do! And of course to my best friend in this world, Tessa, thank you for chosing me to be your number one gal, this day and every day!